Unexpected

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Don't think you know what's coming when you don't know who you are.

What is coming is who you are.

"Roll with the punches," they say. And I concur. The only way you will enjoy life is by doing so. Too often we try to figure out this life. We are told what it is so much that all we care about is experiencing what we have been told.

Unfortunately no one can teach you your own life. No one can ever tell you what to expect in your life. And it's simple, they are not you and you are not them. You are your own life, you define your life and all the experiences that comes with being.

The danger here is wanting the easy way out. If there's one thing that we lack so much is learning for self, by self, and about self. We want fast track to successful living but we don't want to do the hard work. We want to be told and to watch and do.

This is dangerous because we have seen the outcomes and how it was done by those around us. So as we try doing we expect similar results, but there's no beauty because there isn't any new experiences and there's no sense in the doing which makes it awful.

Moreover we don't get what we expected because it's not true to our beings. You grow up and you see and are told of no possibilities and of no options. You are told of what is expected of you. Go to school, get a job as a Doctor, Engineer or something common like that. Then you are told to get married and have children then die. So as you grow up you expect to live all this expectations.

Now you have been trying out this life but it hasn't really worked out for you. You were not expecting this. Everything you have been told you are supposed to be doesn't make sense to your being. You are beating up yourself, thinking you are a failure, thinking you are not normal and now you are living a senseless life.

Shame, the unexpected happened. The unexpected opens a room for self discovery. It allows you to redefine your life. Make sense of your living and choose truth.

When it hits you have the option to stop, ask and understand or carry on adding to senseless living. With the first option you will live a life of purpose. And with the second option you will continue failing. You close all doors that lead to life and you will stay in the death zone. You will be in a very dark place and you won't have a chance to see anything you do.

I am saying this because people live in the second option of failure, of death because they trust being told than telling. They love the easy way out and easy is death.

Choose life. Choose the first option and the unexpected won't scare you. You will roll with the punches because life is a journey and discovery is unexpected.

Love you tons.

How's the unexpected treating you?
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