Pay Attention For Validation

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For validation you need to pay attention to your surrounding. Sometimes because we don't pay attention we miss people validating our truth.

We are so busy doing everything that we even keep busy looking for validation that already exist everyday. Because we are so busy we also focus on people who are busy to validate us. We want people to say because we say too. We understand wrong.

Too often there are people around your living, your doing and your performance who watch and look confused. They listen and they watch but they can't pull a reaction. Those are the people you are supposed to pay attention to but you are not. You are busy paying attention to those who react.

Those who react are not validating the, truth they act so that you validate them too. They are not sure of their action. That's why they are either making noise or silent, these are reactions of not paying attention. These people are reacting to what they don't understand, they give out a false reaction.

People who listen to understand don't know how to react because they are busy reacting to understanding. That's why later on when you are done they will come tell you that you were either good or bad. This is them reacting to what they understand.

All I am saying is that stop asking for people to validate you, just pay attention because trust me there are those who validate your truth. Those who pay attention.

Love you tons.

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