Dealing with Burdens.

#MyLifeBeing

It is so sad that our younger selves were not allowed a chance to live. We were not allowed the opportunity to find ourselves and express ourselves the best way possible.

We get bombarded with so many point of views from different people and we are expected to live all of those all at once, and that really gets confusing. We are always told and not allowed which then disturbs the process of self establishment or discovery. We loose our foundations and really have no place to build what we were born for.

The danger here is how then when we are old we revise purpose and we now have to start the process and fill up every gap that was missed. We go as far as things we were supposed to be at a very tender ages. This then prolongs living on doing and being effective in living.

Now because we are old enough, disturbing variables are a lot, which then forces an enhancement in our ways of thinking. We have to deal with pressure of time and age, we have to deal with juggling old and new information because we missed old and we now have to speed up so that we catch up to present.

In this case you will now start to understand who you really are and what you want because during the time of such a process you were living to please, you were living to conform and you were living to downplay. Now in the mist of understanding self you are dealing with issues of current age, like probably studying or working or starting a family, whatever the case may be. And this means that nothing will be really working out well because you are still dealing with age one.

Unfortunately we are not awarded the same opportunities in life, so the frustration will start when you see people living a life similar to the one you know you could be living currently. But you are taking the back sit because your earlier life opportunities were not so fitting for you and they played absolutely no role in shaping a better you.

You will be annoyed because you will be literally looking into all important details that really failed you in the past. Here you are looking to understand how you got to the position you are in that is really not realistic to you. More time will be wasted because again its a cluster of thoughts that comes with pain, hurt, anger and all those sort of sad memories that needs to be dealt with for better self.

It's a pity because while all of this is happening some of us can't sit still and deal with everything. We now have responsibilities that are beyond just us. The wrong foundation has really resulted in additional premature responsibilities that need our attention. Some have unplanned kids, some have debts and some broken relationships. All of this needs our time on top of mending the past.

This is not impossible, it takes patience. Patience that is carried by gratefulness of even existing currently. This then will allow healing to be much more easier and quicker and so you catch up to appreciate beautiful present.

Time with self here is essentially, it's a must. You need to find time in all this chaos to listen to thought as it makes way for action on how to best handle everything according to truth. You will need your inner being to find a good place first and settle in that place. After that you will notice the outer being starting to validate a place of inside.

You would have done the job to get yourself what you deserve, which is living for purpose. You will now have full control of everything that happens in your life and you will own every position you get yourself into. Strength will be effortless, peace will live and confidence will be fully operational.

This is your place and here you will stay for eternity.

Love you tons.